[life] SR bulletpoints
After good text, good date, good sex, do not confess your feelings or send gifts, this behavior has high failure probability. Ok, so you confessed and the answer is maybe, remember, maybe is still not a defeat. When cold approaching, give a reason for the encounter. If she can't make it, just say ok, this will differentiate you from 90 percent of men already. Soft close then hard close. Say I don't like x y z, this is setting standards, setting the rules, it is attractive. Don't talk about past relationship, diffuse with humor. Don't talk about future relationship together, this is what she wants to earn. Take charge, killer instinct, make sex happen. Ask for a favor, or a suggestion with something that she is good at. Family meetings early on, is too fast, too early.