[life] [pin] [important] re-organize all bullet points

communication

• self amuse (fun, flirty, misinterpret)
• show value (show my interesting life)
• don't give pressure, don't try that hard (trying too hard cheapens my value)
• don't give away free attention (establish attraction first)
• don't explain the joke (explaining lowers value)
• trying a couple times is mandatory
• keeping attraction, aka chemistry, means my masculine vs her feminine frame, aka dominance
• falling in love (obsession) comes from absence, disqualifying, tension
• falling in love (obsession) comes from her own thoughts, not something you do
• to stand out, do not give free attention, my attention is my only currency
  preemptive, ask for a favor, to get the power back, this is counter intuitive but it works
• admit sexual attraction is good (don't admit love)
• fun and flirty vibe is good (white knight loving vibe is not good, it is a turn off)

learning period

• chess game, think about her reaction, strategize, then act (strategize, means study all this first then react)
• jealousy and frustration are good, can't be afraid to do that, there needs to be up and down moments to create love

shit test

• emotionally unresponsive is key
• I have no response to that / I think so too
• agree and exaggerate

life

• have a interesting life, for yourself (and also for others to join)
• always be willing to walk away and move on, this is abundance

get her to chase

• she pulls back, you pull back
• but even better, preemptive, pull back availability first
• when text or situation is good, preemptive, pull back first, because I am screening

frame

• not will she like me, but will I like her : so don't pedestal, don't please, don't validate
• be happy alone, always be ready to be alone, so you are not afraid to offend or stand your ground when needed

close

• steps, soft close, before hard close
• assume attraction, we should do xyz
• assertive, make something happen, closing is necessary, need to close, yes, but don't close on a bad note (steps)

raise attraction on the date

• give uncertainty (because uncertainty is attraction)
• give uncertainty means don't validate, don't let her have her way, so she wants your validation, this will lead to the bedroom

human nature

• we all don't like games, but you have to keep gaming, that is just human nature
• understand female nature, don't get mad, accept it and play the game correctly
• female nature means she will always test, always stop you, always pull back, just keep gaming correctly
• hypergamy will work for you, if you become full stack