[life] SR exp
Before the argument She doesn’t need to like you, she needs to respect you Obligations don’t work Space is important Don’t be thirsty, do purpose, let her come No fear In the argument Don’t argue anything Stand up for myself, point it out Never answer anything logically, never explain Be honest about my feelings, stand my ground I make the rules Reply light When you react, you become part of it After the argument Don’t show anger just leave Take away attention Feel it, accept it, transcend it uncertainty, unavailability done congruently creates attraction come from position of strength listen